A column by Master Ferdok about his way to live the sm with brain and heart.
I am 47 years old and I am from north-western germany. I am located in a very small city called Leer(Ostfriesland). It’s close to the dutch border. Our next bigger cities are Bremen which is at the same time my nearest airport and Emden. I am married since almost 5 years and I live openly gay. I own a house at the country side here in north-western germany without direct neighbours. My next neighbour is about 100 meters away from my property.
I am into SM for more than 25 years now. I always was a master, active and dominant and sadistic by nature. Let’s start with a very stupid thing I hear over and over again: “You can only be a good master if you have started as a slave”. Sorry but that’s bullshit. All you need to be a good master is a working brain to be able to watch your slaves how they handle things. So don’t let noone tell you that bullshit sentence. It’s simply rubbish.
Every once in a while people ask me what I like and what turns me on. Usually I am tired to answer those questions cause you just need to look at my blog and you can answer it yourself but today I feel like in a mood to write a bit about it. My favourite tool is the bullwhip. I like to tie slaves up in a spreadeagled position and to whip them. It turns me on to see the whip impacting on a slaves body. It turns me on to see the body reacting to the inflicted pain. I like to see how the muscles react and I am curious how much a new slave can take.
I like it rough and extreme. But whatever I do I always do it safe, sane and responsible.
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Dear fetish lovers,
Before I start I have to apologise that you couldn’t read my weekly column las week. Due to holidays and family affairs I wasn’t able to write something. I hope my faithful readers and followers might forgive me. And now let’s start.
If you want to become a permanently owned slave there are some preconditions that have to be fulfilled and some things you should consider.
- Some slaves still have the idea that simply vanishing into slavery is something that will work. Of course this is totally nonsense. At least as long as you still have family members who love you and who care about you. What will happen if you just vanish? Well in most cases sooner or later family members will start to search for you. And sooner or later the police will be involved. Because your family members really want to find you they will be ok with having your pc or other electronic devices searched by the police to get any helpful hints or informations about whats going on with you. And if that happens the police will probably find chats or exchanged mails between you and your master/owner. And the consequence is always that their will be interrogations and other complications that neither you or your new master wants.
- The next thing that doesn’t work is to have an illness and to think that your future master will financially take care of it. If you have a disease that needs to be treated permanently with medicine/drugs it means in most cases that it will cost a lot of money. Why would you come with such a burden to your new master and why the hell do you even have the idea that your master would cover the expenses for that? I can’t think of anyone who would really do that and I know a lot of people. If you have such a disease try to get it treated well or even healed before you do the step of becoming a 24/7 slave.
- Another thing that doesn’t work is running away from debts. If you own money to a bank, no matter if it is a simple credit or a mortgage for a house you can’t run from it. The bank will do anything to find you and to get the money. Nearly the same things like in point 1 will happen. Banks always want their money back and they will not stop to search for you until they have found you.
- Something that doesn’t work either, at least for me and a lot of masters I know, is to give rights to the slave after some time. A slave should always be a slave, kept like a slave and be treated like a slave. I made the experience that if the slave gets rights after some time like having a job or seeing friends or other “normal life” things the relationship between the slave and the master CAN soften up. Of course if doesn’t have to be like this but my experience shows that in most cases this is what happens. And how much 24/7 is it really when you can have a “normal life” or time outs? There might be relationships where the fact that the slave has a job or own friends he can see works but that’s a very seldom thing.
If you see things different please let me know. I am always interested in some feedback. Are there things you would like to read about? If so please let me also know.
And now I want to wish all my followers a happy weekend. Enjoy life, you only have this one!