A column by Master Ferdok about his way to live the sm with brain and heart.
Dear fetish lovers,
Since some time I am in contact with a slave from England and that slave already visited me two times here in Germany. Before his first visit here I sent him some pics from myself that show me in leather trousers and a leather jacket. That’s an outfit which is absolutely normal for me to wear. I never ever wasted much thoughts about it and to wear leather here in Germany is really no big issue.
And I have often been to England and Scotland and I often wore a leather trousers combined with a shirt and a tie when I went out for lunch or dinner. I never had the impression that it would be a big issue and I never made bad experiences of any kind wearing it.
Some month ago I told that slave to order a tight leather trousers for himself and he obeyed and ordered a very tight leather trousers for himself and he really looked good in it. I told him to bring it with him the next time he would come over and he did it.
At one point of his visit I told him to attend me while I do some shopping. I took on my leather trousers and a normal shirt and he and me went shopping. During the ride to the first store I realised that the slave was quite reserved. I was asking him what his problem was and he told me he would feel strange because of me wearing a leather trousers for shopping. I was laughing about it as I really thought he was joking but realised very quickly that he was very serious about it. And so I was asking him why it would be so strange for him to see me wearing a leather trousers during normal day routines and he replied that if you would do that in England people would look at you like you would be from a different planet or that you even might get beaten up if you would do it at smaller cities or the country side. He mentioned that people would probably think that you are a pervert or even worse.
To be honest I was quite shocked about that answer. It was totally unexpected for me cause here in Germany it is no big issue to wear leather in public. It is normal fashion, not better or worse than a jeans, a jogging trousers or whatever and for me it’s an absolute normal thing to wear leather.
It is so fucking normal here in Germany. I mean, come on, we are in the 3rd millennium. It’s not like we are in the medieval times anymore. Right?
I still couldn’t believe that there are really places where people have a problem with other people wearing leather and for this reason I was doing some chats with friends from England and Scotland.
I spoke with one slave from England who now lives in Germany, his name is Mark and he said: “Yeah, people in England don’t wear leather trousers in the street. Not even for fashion. I see men and ladies wearing them quite a bit in Germany. In London probably yeah but if a guy wore leather trousers people would think he was into leather sexually I think. If we go to a fetish Club here in Germany then I’d wear leather trousers here on the U-Babn but I wouldn’t do it in my hometown. I’d probably get beaten up!!!”
I had another chat about this theme with Stuart, a hot, young slaveboy from Glasgow. Our chat went like this: “How is it overthere in scotland in Edinburgh? Is it a big issue to wear a leather trousers in public?”
Stuart replied:”If they were incredibly tight you might get some looks but that’s it. I think it is just uncommon rather than frowned upon or anything. We are definitely a lot more liberal Massa. In england I think you would have to go to fetish places etc.”
Another friend of mine, a slaveboy from Wales told me: “No you could wear it (the leather trousers and a leather jacket) over here no problem. You have a picture of you in them? I’m intrigued!” ?
My thanks to Mark, Stuart and James for your time for these chats. I do appreciate it very much.
So it seems it depends on the area where you are in Great Britain. Yeah and those chats really opened my eyes and these chats made me realise that I was probably lucky not having got beaten up while I was wearing leather trousers in England.
I would like to get some reactions on this one. Every feedback is very, very welcome.
I am 47 years old and I am from north-western germany. I am located in a very small city called Leer(Ostfriesland). It’s close to the dutch border. Our next bigger cities are Bremen which is at the same time my nearest airport and Emden. I am married since almost 5 years and I live openly gay. I own a house at the country side here in north-western germany without direct neighbours. My next neighbour is about 100 meters away from my property.
I am into SM for more than 25 years now. I always was a master, active and dominant and sadistic by nature. Let’s start with a very stupid thing I hear over and over again: “You can only be a good master if you have started as a slave”. Sorry but that’s bullshit. All you need to be a good master is a working brain to be able to watch your slaves how they handle things. So don’t let noone tell you that bullshit sentence. It’s simply rubbish.
Every once in a while people ask me what I like and what turns me on. Usually I am tired to answer those questions cause you just need to look at my blog and you can answer it yourself but today I feel like in a mood to write a bit about it. My favourite tool is the bullwhip. I like to tie slaves up in a spreadeagled position and to whip them. It turns me on to see the whip impacting on a slaves body. It turns me on to see the body reacting to the inflicted pain. I like to see how the muscles react and I am curious how much a new slave can take.
I like it rough and extreme. But whatever I do I always do it safe, sane and responsible.
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