A column by Master Ferdok about his way to live the sm with brain and heart.
I am 47 years old and I am from north-western germany. I am located in a very small city called Leer(Ostfriesland). It’s close to the dutch border. Our next bigger cities are Bremen which is at the same time my nearest airport and Emden. I am married since almost 5 years and I live openly gay. I own a house at the country side here in north-western germany without direct neighbours. My next neighbour is about 100 meters away from my property.
I am into SM for more than 25 years now. I always was a master, active and dominant and sadistic by nature. Let’s start with a very stupid thing I hear over and over again: “You can only be a good master if you have started as a slave”. Sorry but that’s bullshit. All you need to be a good master is a working brain to be able to watch your slaves how they handle things. So don’t let noone tell you that bullshit sentence. It’s simply rubbish.
Every once in a while people ask me what I like and what turns me on. Usually I am tired to answer those questions cause you just need to look at my blog and you can answer it yourself but today I feel like in a mood to write a bit about it. My favourite tool is the bullwhip. I like to tie slaves up in a spreadeagled position and to whip them. It turns me on to see the whip impacting on a slaves body. It turns me on to see the body reacting to the inflicted pain. I like to see how the muscles react and I am curious how much a new slave can take.
I like it rough and extreme. But whatever I do I always do it safe, sane and responsible.
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Dear fetish lovers,
I am a fan of raceplay. Raceplay is something that definitely turns me on.
I was always interested in people with other skin colours. I don’t know what it is or where it comes from and to be honest I don’t really want to know why it is like it is. All I can say is that I love people from other races. The darker the skin is the more “exotic” they are for me and the more I get turned on sexually.
Its probably this fact in combination with SM that I am also a big fan of raceplay. But what exactly is raceplay? Raceplay means that both partners get turned on when they use “aggressive” language that is not politically correct and based on their races while interacting sexually.
Let me give you an example: A black and a white man interact sexually. When now the white man is using terms like nigger, coon or darky and the other partner, in this case the black one, gets turned on sexually by it it is what is called raceplay.
Of course this is not limited to black and whites only. Raceplay is found in a wide range between all colours. Asians are called “chink” or “ricefeeder/riceeaters” for example, latinos are called “spics” or “beaneaters”, whites are called “white bread” or “white trash”, arabs are called “sandniggers or “camel jockeys” and so on. There are tons of other names for every single race on this earth.
Important is that this aggressive talk is consensual between both partners and it is used to get sexually turned on!!!
Now let me explain you what it’s not.
It is NOT a sign for being racist.
It is NOT a sign for being right winged.
It is NOT a sign for lack of respect.
It is NOT used to insult the other one and it is NOT used with bad intentions.
If you see a black and a white in public and you hear that the white is calling his black friend nigger it doesn’t automatically mean that the white is a racist and the black is the victim. It could simply be that it is an interracial couple who agreed to do this in public because both may like “public humiliation”. So before you judge anyone do what everybody with a brain should do. Get yourself informed. Get informations. Stop judging and don’t forget that for some of us “raceplay” is a turn on.
I am using terms of raceplay in my tumblr blog myself and I know how often people confuse the issue. And the funniest comments are the ones that call me nazi and things like that.
I am open gay, married with a latino and my closest friends are blacks. So how much nazi I can probaly be?!
It’s still what it is. It’s just “raceplay”. Enjoy this kind of turn on and may all my readers and followers may have a perfect weekend.
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