A column by Master Ferdok about his way to live the sm with brain and heart.
I am 47 years old and I am from north-western germany. I am located in a very small city called Leer(Ostfriesland). It’s close to the dutch border. Our next bigger cities are Bremen which is at the same time my nearest airport and Emden. I am married since almost 5 years and I live openly gay. I own a house at the country side here in north-western germany without direct neighbours. My next neighbour is about 100 meters away from my property.
I am into SM for more than 25 years now. I always was a master, active and dominant and sadistic by nature. Let’s start with a very stupid thing I hear over and over again: “You can only be a good master if you have started as a slave”. Sorry but that’s bullshit. All you need to be a good master is a working brain to be able to watch your slaves how they handle things. So don’t let noone tell you that bullshit sentence. It’s simply rubbish.
Every once in a while people ask me what I like and what turns me on. Usually I am tired to answer those questions cause you just need to look at my blog and you can answer it yourself but today I feel like in a mood to write a bit about it. My favourite tool is the bullwhip. I like to tie slaves up in a spreadeagled position and to whip them. It turns me on to see the whip impacting on a slaves body. It turns me on to see the body reacting to the inflicted pain. I like to see how the muscles react and I am curious how much a new slave can take.
I like it rough and extreme. But whatever I do I always do it safe, sane and responsible.
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Dear fetish lovers,
I don’t like tattoos. Really I don’t get this kind of fashion. For me there is nothing more beautiful than an untouched body. I really prefer a pure, clean body. Probably is has to do with me being a sadist. When I work on a body and it doesn’t matter what colour it has, I like to see the traces of my work. When I work with a flogger or a single tail bullwhip I want to see the traces of each single lash on the body of the slave.
If someone is absolutely covered with tattoos it is simply impossible to see traces. And the next thing is that there are really only just a very few tattoo artists that do very good job. Most tattoos I have seen just loom cheap and cheesy. It’s my personal opinion that it really destroys the natural beauty of a person. This pic below for example. It shows a black boy covered with tattoos.
That boy would look so beautiful if he would have a clean and pure black body. In fact I think there is nothing more beautiful than pure, black skin.
The next thing is that you just have to imagine how it will look when you grow older. Your skin will not be so vital anymore and sooner or later you will gain weight or lose weight and the pictures or symbols will start to crinkle and no matter how beautiful it might have looked once it will start to look horrible.
Not too long ago a slave offered himself to me. He was tattooed all over. He was willing and ready to come here but as soon as I saw his pictures I replied with “No, thank you!”. I am really addicted to black skin and there is really nothing that I like more but for example if the boy above would offer himself to me I would not accept him.
Okay one little tattoo or maybe even two little tattoos are okay and it can even look hot but the whole body covered is an absolute no go for me.
In the past I once signed a permanent slave with a tattoo and I can imagine to do that again but I also have to admit that I am much more into branding. If done right and correctly treated afterwards it’s not such a big deal. It only hurts for less than a second and the pain is quickly very bearable. And even with a branding I am still able to see traces of my work on the body of the slave.
But when the body is covered with ink it is impossible to see anything.
So please, please, please think twice or triple if you really want to become that kind of fashion victim. In my eyes it destroys the natural beauty of the pure body and it’s not worth it but that’s just my very personal opinion.
But anyway I wish all my followers and readers a beautiful weekend. Stay clean and safe or as my husband always says: Watch your but, don’t be a slut!”