A column by Master Ferdok about his way to live the sm with brain and heart.
I am 47 years old and I am from north-western germany. I am located in a very small city called Leer(Ostfriesland). It’s close to the dutch border. Our next bigger cities are Bremen which is at the same time my nearest airport and Emden. I am married since almost 5 years and I live openly gay. I own a house at the country side here in north-western germany without direct neighbours. My next neighbour is about 100 meters away from my property.
I am into SM for more than 25 years now. I always was a master, active and dominant and sadistic by nature. Let’s start with a very stupid thing I hear over and over again: “You can only be a good master if you have started as a slave”. Sorry but that’s bullshit. All you need to be a good master is a working brain to be able to watch your slaves how they handle things. So don’t let noone tell you that bullshit sentence. It’s simply rubbish.
Every once in a while people ask me what I like and what turns me on. Usually I am tired to answer those questions cause you just need to look at my blog and you can answer it yourself but today I feel like in a mood to write a bit about it. My favourite tool is the bullwhip. I like to tie slaves up in a spreadeagled position and to whip them. It turns me on to see the whip impacting on a slaves body. It turns me on to see the body reacting to the inflicted pain. I like to see how the muscles react and I am curious how much a new slave can take.
I like it rough and extreme. But whatever I do I always do it safe, sane and responsible.
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Dear fetish lovers,
One of the funniest chats I ever had happened last week. A slave was asking if I had a playroom. I told him all about the equipment I own and ended with telling him that I don’t have a playroom. He was wondering how it could be that I have so many toys but no playroom. I told him that I have a dungeon and no playroom.
A playroom for me is a nice room, equipped with heaters and maybe even a carpet. I can’t offer that. I created my own dungeon, located in a very old basement. You can see pictures below. And this dungeon is cold in wintertimes, pretty warm during summer and with a normal temperature in spring and autumn. It only has mobile heaters which I can move from room to room. Room to room? Yes. This dungeon has two rooms. One for torture and one for extreme isolation. And there are no carpets or showers. It contains one sink where a slave can clean himself from time to time and that’s it.
I prefer a real dungeon. The atmosphere is totally different than compared to a cozy playroom. Please don’t get me wrong. I don’t mind if people have a playroom. It is just that my personal taste is different. And when I think about it a lot of people I know and talked with see it very similar. For example Master Stigma from norway or if you look at the videos from dicipline4boys or extremeboys. Most of the professional video shots aren’t done in playrooms.
I think that I have more possibilities to work on the mind of a slave if the slave is in a dungeon. Being isolated in a cold and dirty enviroment is something completely different than being in a warm room. The dungeon can even be wet, dust on the floor and the best thing for me is that a slave can even scream and no one will hear the screams. Imagine to have a screaming slave in a playroom when you live in a flat surrounded by neighbours.
And this one brings me to another point. The perfect enviroment for keeping a slave. I always wonder how doms and masters in bigger cities handle this. Do they meet in clubs or kind of storage rooms if they want to own lots of toys or use toys? I mean I can’t imagine that you own a big flat in cities like New York or San Francisco unless you are really a millionaire. Would be interesting to get feedback from masters and especially slaves that live in such metropolis.
I for myself am happy that I own a property at the countryside. I don’t have direct neighbours and so it’s even possible to do outdoor training with slaves. And being able to own and use for example a horse cart widens the possibilities a lot.
So I am looking forward to get some feedback on this one and I wish all followers a perfect weekend. Have fun out there and enjoy your life.
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