A kinky column by Master Ferdok about his way to live the sm with brain and heart.
Hello to my followers!
It’s raining outside. Typical weather for this part of north-western germany for this time of the year. About 8 degrees celsius cold, grey sky and constantly raining. It’s not that hard rain you sometimes have. It is more soft and constantly falling. Kind of annoying but at the same time the best time to do some renovation and decoration. I finished the renovation of my dungeon. I told you last week about it. Now I will start to renovate my sleeping room. Next week a local furniture store will deliver my new closet. The old one wasn’t good enough anymore. It was old and had some bad spots. It needed to be replaced. The new closet will be bigger than the old one and for that reason I have to move my bed to a new spot and before that can be done I have to move a chest of drawers. So as I am starting to move all the furniture anyway let’s make it right and make everything better.
“Make things better” leads me right to the next theme. I got disappointed again from a white, german slave from Berlin. It’s a guy who is 36 years old, 177cm tall, around 70 kilos and the chats I had with him were really promising. Also the pics he sent to me were really promising. To make a long story short: He was supposed to meet me last friday and he didn’t show up. No message from him on gayromeo, no message via whatsapp, no mail. Well it’s okay. No prob for me. But somehow this is sadly typical for white, german slaves around the mid 30s. I don’t know what exactly it is but these white germans seem to like to make dates and than like to not show up. What are the consequences for me now about that incident? Well I made the decision that I will not meet or date any white, german slave anymore.
95% of my closest friends and of the best slaves I ever met are non german. I always was attracted to other countries and other cultures and to be honest I really don’t like the mentality of most german people. It’s my opinion that most germans don’t know anything about enjoying life. It’s all about work and money and success and it’s all about rushing through life.
Another fact of the german mentality simply is that most slaves expect to find the perfect master right around the corner. I remember a chat with a german slave many years ago. He just lived 80km away from me. But that distance was too much for him to travel. Guess that says all. So from now on:
No white, german slaves anymore!
I will concentrate again on meeting cool, friendly, intelligent people from other countries and races. I made the best experiences with people from other races and other countries. Especially people from Great Britain, Netherlands, Belgium and the middle eastern/arabian area are very very cool and way different in her mind set. And that’s something I like very much.
Another thing I still like very much is the imagination to own a black slave. I simply can’t get that idea out of my head. I like the way that black skin looks and I like the smell of that skin. It’s so way different compared with white skin. Yes, I want to own a black slave and I want that slave to become a permanent slave to live here with us. Ideally he should be between 18 and 40, normal body, able to hold a conversation and of course physically and mentally healthy. And of course that slave should be gay, into sm and race play!
Do you know anyone like that? Maybe that description fits on you? Than don’t hesitate to get in touch with me. I would love to get to know you and to meet you!
“Meet you”…that brings me to my last thing I want to write about. It’s been quite a while that I have attended SM clubs or sm events. SM clubs didn’t fascinate me for one reason: My “toy”-collection is much bigger than compared with most SM clubs. So why would I go there if my dungeon at home is way better equipped?
And about SM events? It simply most didn’t accord with my working weekends. But for 2017 I will change that. It’s been way too long that I have been in “The Boots” in Antwerp or “The Hoist” in London. But that will definitely change very soon. And now that my asian slave is about to move in it will be three of us that will travel. And that will definitely be much more fun!
Okay my dear followers I wish all of you a very cool sunday and I hope you will enjoy the rest of the weekend. I need to move my ass. I have to move some furniture! ?
Take care, stay safe and have fun!
I am 47 years old and I am from north-western germany. I am located in a very small city called Leer(Ostfriesland). It’s close to the dutch border. Our next bigger cities are Bremen which is at the same time my nearest airport and Emden. I am married since almost 5 years and I live openly gay. I own a house at the country side here in north-western germany without direct neighbours. My next neighbour is about 100 meters away from my property.
I am into SM for more than 25 years now. I always was a master, active and dominant and sadistic by nature. Let’s start with a very stupid thing I hear over and over again: “You can only be a good master if you have started as a slave”. Sorry but that’s bullshit. All you need to be a good master is a working brain to be able to watch your slaves how they handle things. So don’t let noone tell you that bullshit sentence. It’s simply rubbish.
Every once in a while people ask me what I like and what turns me on. Usually I am tired to answer those questions cause you just need to look at my blog and you can answer it yourself but today I feel like in a mood to write a bit about it. My favourite tool is the bullwhip. I like to tie slaves up in a spreadeagled position and to whip them. It turns me on to see the whip impacting on a slaves body. It turns me on to see the body reacting to the inflicted pain. I like to see how the muscles react and I am curious how much a new slave can take.
I like it rough and extreme. But whatever I do I always do it safe, sane and responsible.
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