An Interview with Master Mike who is living with his slave for more than 30 years now.
MasterMarc: Hello Master Tom. You are owning now your slave for more than 30 years now. Do you still remember how has this relationship started?
Master Mike: Hello Master Marc. I remember it very clearly. At the time, I was 24 years old, and living in a college town in Massachusetts. There was this guy, an older (53) guy who had gay sex parties all the time at his house – I mean, every fucking night (and every night fucking). He charged a small cover charge, but it was so much better than driving an hour to the nearest bath house or good gay bar, so I started going there. At the time, I identified as straight, but the idea of having unlimited sex, and of dominating guys, was very appealing to me.
This guy owned two slaves, who were quite often the focus of the parties. The older one was blond and pretty hot, but the younger one, who was dark and had a hairy chest and thick dark hair on its head, was more attractive to me. I started going over pretty often to use it – the guy stopped charging me, and I would just show up any time I was horny (back then that was pretty much all the time!)
The other slave disappeared (I never knew what happened to it), and after a while the guy started talking about “disposing” of the younger slave. He was really into younger guys, and I think the fact that the slave was now 21 made it way too old for him. I often saw him fucking young college students at his parties, and the slave was ignored by him, except when he felt like beating or torturing it. the slave did all the work, cleaned the house, did all the chores, was whored out to anyone who wanted it – it was pretty fucking amazing, and pretty heady for me (I was not very experienced at that time). I had known there were guys who thought of themselves as “slaves’ but this one really was a slave, kept naked and chained, forced to do anything that it was told to do, forced to do chores, etc. I was so fucking turned on by it.
My sexuality is predominantly straight, but for me, the biggest turn on is the control and domination of a slave. And even at 24, I had realized that women, for the most part, make lousy slaves – there is just WAY too much baggage between men and women. So I had already figured out that, if I was going to have a slave, I was probably going to end up with a male slave.
And the guy who owned this one wnated to dispose of it. I talked to him about it, and he said he was amenable to transfering ownership of it to me – provided I get it out of town and he would never have to see or hear from it again. I had already made plans to move to California, so I figured that was not a problem.
The day I left for California, I showed up at his house. the slave was working, as usual, naked except for a collar and a padlock around its cock and balls – something its owner had put on it the day he had taken it as his slave. I went into the house, and the guy was there. We had written up a sales contract, which I gave him and he read. Then he told the slave to come over to him, and when it did, he removed the padlock – which obviously freaked the slave out (it had no idea what was about to happen). Then he stood up and said to the slave, “I’ve sold you to Master Mike, and you are his now. Get out and don’t ever come back.” I put a leash on it and took it, naked, out to my van, which was packed to the gills (just enough room for a single bed mattress to sleep on during the trip). I stuck the slave in the back (there were no windows) and got in the front and drove away. I have owned it since that day.
MasterMarc: It sounds that you’re living a wanking fantasy of many guys. As I have also experiences with 24/7 slaves I know that the moment you’ve got the slave was not only the moment the fun has started. First it was the moment your work and responsibility has started. How was the first time with a slave at your side and what have you had to learn?
Master Mike: I have had to learn a LOT. Owning a true slave is a big responsibility, and keeping things interesting and ever changing for the slave has been a lot to handle. the slave made me stretch and really think about what I wanted, what kind of Master I wanted to be, and how I wanted to live my life. At the time, we were both young, so I couldn’t afford to keep it as a 24/7 slave – it had to work. So we lived publicly more as a gay couple (one that was extremely devoted to each other). But many of our friends came to understand our relationship, and even accept it.
Owning a slave is fucking amazing – really, the greatest experience of my life. But it is in fact work, and I have to think about how to treat it every day. I have had to give it some pretty strict lessons at times, I have had to change the rules so it was confused and kept on its toes, and I have had to whore it out a lot to make sure it remembers who is in charge. it has been used by many many men, and it has never had a choice as to who it wanted to use it.
MasterMarc: You have told us something very important: As master you have to know, what kind of master you want to be. And everything has a evolution. So what kind of master have you decided to be as you have got your slave and how has it changed during the time?
Master Mike: That is a complicated question! It has changed a lot over the years. At times, I was stricter, and at other times gave it more freedom.
But I guess the simple answer is, I realized that my slave truly believes itself to be owned property. This is not a sexual thing for it, it is a lifestyle, it is what it believes. Especially since I branded it, it has believed that it has no rights at all, no ability to ever leave, and that it is in fact property. A lot of slaves talk about that, but then once you start getting into it with them, you realize its mostly an act. Or they want to talk about it, then they want to cum and then go home. my slave is truly my property, and when I turn it over to another guy, it treats that guy like a God, because it knows I want it to. It’s a big responsibility – I have to be careful that the men I loan it to are worthy of using such a valuable piece of property. I had one bad experience, and since then, I have been very careful about how I whore it out.
MasterMarc: What kind of bad experience was that?
Master Mike: I had arranged for a guy to take it, and he took it to his place in San Francisco. He turned otu to be some kind of sociopath, and among other things beat the slave with a 2×4. He knocked it unconscious, broke several of its ribs, and left it for dead, naked in the gutter of an alley in San Francisco. The cops found it, and it wasn’t until it regained consciousness that it could tell them its name and how to contact me. the slave has no memory of most of this – it vaguely remembers meeting the guy, but the rest of its memories are gone, so it seems the guy probably struck it in the head with the 2×4 pretty soon after it arrived. it took a long time before I let anyone use it after that – and since that time, I don’t just say to guys “sure, come use it” – I ask a lot of questions (I mention that in my recon profile, you might recall).
MasterMarc: That’s really a bad experience. I’ve also made my bad experiences but never on this level. Do you take also other mesaruses to prevent such situations?
Master Mike: Mostly, I try to vet everyone who uses it. I ask a lot of questions, I want to know who they are, how serious they aare, where they live etc. the slave’s iPhone has tracking software on it, so I know where it is within about 30 feet. I’ve been careful with it, and usually have guys use it (at least the first time) on my property, so I can monitor what is going on. I’m not into three ways or participating, but I do like it used here first, so I know its safe.
Some guys take exception to my asking a lot of questions before they use it – but fuck, that’s their problem. If they say “forget it”, I’m fine with that. I’d rather have 50 guys who might fuck it good decide not to rather than have one guy fuck it over.
MasterMarc: Which properties does a good master have to have, and what kind of character does he have to have?
Master Mike: The best properties for a good Master – wow, that is a tough question MasterMarc! I think a good master needs to first and foremost be completely honest with his property. Trust is huge in any relationship, but doubly huge in an SM relationship. A slave has to certainly trust its master to turn itself over to him – but a master also has to trust the slave, to be able to treat the slave the way he wants and know the slave is, at heart, okay with it.
There is risk in owning a slave On recon, I am frequently approached by slave-wannabes who tell me they want to be my slave, 24/7/365, and they want me to kidnap and enslave them. A nice fantasy, for sure. But the reality is, there is no way I’m going to kidnap a slave. If I take a slave that way, and then it changes its mind, it could not only cause a lot of difficulty in my household, but it could also have me arrested for false imprisonment. So I tell these guys: if you want to be my slave, you come to me, you sign papers, you make it clear in tangible ways that you WANT this. Once that happens, then it is possible.
MasterMarc: That is the difference to the historical slavery. It is a free decision to become a slave. And of course, a lot of guys confuse sm slavery with a wanking fantasy. What do you think was your slaves motivation to become a slave?
Master Mike: So, the slave’s motivation. Well, you might want to ask it that, but I know that it knew it was a salve long before it was exual or even grown. it has told me that, at age 3 or 4, it had fantasies of being used by men. it knew it was born to be a slave, and as soon as it learned what a slave was, it wanted to be one. it had a pretty fucked up childhood, but largely because its father figured out that it was gay and a slave, and started using it as both. but the slave was actually pretty happy, even though it has been used and humiliated and abused its entire life. Many people have said that they thought its family had turned it into a slave, but it has told me that it knows that, in fact, it was born to be a slave, and knew it was a slave before anyone else figured it out
in fact, it told me that it used to get boys to piss in its mouth – this at incredibly young ages (4 and up). So it clearly knew that it was going to be a slave, and has always wanted to be one.
once it became a slave, it never rebelled in any substantive way to get itself released. And it is also an interesting person, brilliant, funny, talented. it is a pretty interesting slave to own, and it has kept my interest all these years – and challenged me to keep its interest.
MasterMarc: Wow, that’s hard but at the same time amazing. Can you tell us, how a normal slave’s day looks like (during the strict times of slavery)?
Master Mike: it lives a good life as a salve. I generally wake it up by putting a funnel in its mouth and using it as a urinal. it takes care of my needs, then makes breakfast. it serves me and it kneels next t the table while I eat – it does not eat until I am finished. I usually check email etc while it cleans the kitchen, then it runs a shower for me, and after I get in, it gets in with me to wash me. it washes itself at the same time. Then it gets towels and dries me off, then dries itself. it goes in and lays out my clothes for me. I get dressed, and it often assists. Then it dresses itself, and we go to work.
At work, the other Men it works with know what it is, and they often use it too. This is fine with me. it has the nickname “the office urinal” they often keep it naked in the office (it works in the back so no one sees it) and they don’t let it use furniture – it has to kneel to do its work.
After, work, it makes dinner. then, I generally put it at the gloryhole for other men to use, or I arrange for buddies to take it and use it. Or I use it myself, then have it whoored out. Sometimes I just tie it to the sawhorse and spend a good hour or two whipping and torturing it.
When everyone is done using it (which can be very late), it still has to clean the kitchen from dinner, do all the dishes, dry them and put them away. Then it comes in and gives me a backrub, and sometimes rides my cock or just rubs me. I generally let it drink one more load of piss before we go to sleep. then it sleeps either with me, on the floor next to me, or in the closet or a cage.
MasterMarc: What are in your eyes the important points, the musts, of the slave’s treatment?
Master Mike: Interesting question. For me, I think one is using it as a urinal. Having a slave drink your piss is an important sybmol, and is pretty fucking hot as well. Having the slave’s dick in chastity is pretty important too, as the slave needs to always understand that men get to cum, but not slaves. I have taught my slave that the fact that it can cum is a freak of nature – cumming should be reserved for men. I have trained it to hate it that it can cum.
So that means the slave never gets sucked and never gets to fuck. Importnat restrictions, I believe.
I think whipping and torture and abuse is an important tool – not to be just brutalized, but for it to always have some fear and to know that, at any time, you might decide to punish it.
I branded my slave, and have its slave register number tattooed on it where its pubes used to be. Those are important symbols as well.
But having the slave know what it is, always reminding it, having men use it – doing as much as I can to keep it constantly aware of its role in life. That is the most important thing. it needs to always be reassured that its status as property will never change.
MasterMarc: I say often, that also masters are serving their slaves but in a different way. I love to compare it with a theater. A slave is the actor in a supporting role, but the master is actor, director, storybook writer at the same time. And as producer he has the full responsibility. How do you see it?
Master Mike: That’s a pretty good analogy, but the slave has a bigger role than you are seeing. the slave often has a lot of control, and a good slave predicts what the master will want, and is ready and able to provide it. ti use your analogy, my slave often sets the scenery, so to speak, and gets the stage ready for the play. it also helps pace the show, and it makes sure that the star of the show (me) is up for my role. So the slave has a lot to do as well.
MasterMarc: You’re right. A lot of masters forget that they aren’t a master without a slave. It needs always both sides to complete the scenery. That gives us the freedom to live what we feel. That’s the reason why slaves are so important and valuable for us masters. But of course we shouldn’t give them too much this feeling. 🙂 I am sure that responsibility is for you really important. How have you secured your boy’s future if you would have an accident?
Master Mike: I have been careful to make sure that, in the eyes of society, we are married, not Master and slave. My slave does work, so it has the capability of supporting itself, and it also owns the smae that I own (houses, money, etc). So if something happens to me, the slave will be well taken care of.
I have also spoken to some friends about taking on finding a replacement owner for it should something happen to me. I know it can’t survive without a Master.
MasterMarc: What has been the best and hottest experiences you have done with your slave in the last 30 years?
Master Mike: Fuck, the hottest thing I have done with it? I think branding it was an incredible thing. Th e actual branding itself was pretty fucking amazing, but then how it responded to it was nothing short of miraculous. I mean, I had owned it for a long time at that point in time, but branding it changed the whole dynamic, and made it even more of a piece of property. And I have to say: the night described in its essay “The Worst Day” was a pretty hot fucking night. I knew that it was changing the slave, right before my eyes, into a much better piece of property.
MasterMarc: You ve said, that your slave can’t survive without any master. I know you can survive without slave, but what would you miss if you wouldn’t have a slave anymore?
Master Mike: Well, on a totally practical level, I’d miss having a slave do the nthings I need done: dishes, laundry, chores, sucking my cock, drinking my piss, taking my cum in its ass. I’d miss all that, of course. HAving to go out and find someone to fuck when I was horny would be a fucking drag – I love having an instiable slave whore who will ALWAYS take my cum.
But beyond that, I would miss the devotion having a slave that thinks of me as a fucking god. I have been very successful in my career, and I have become head of a rather large corporation – largely due, I think, to the devotion I get from my slave. My slave believes me to be the greatest man in the world, and that belief helps motivate me to do what I need to do. Having a slave is an amazing confidence builder.
And I’d miss knowing it was there, always ready, always willing, always horny. I’d mis seeing its big dick locked in a chastity cage, straining against the bars, aching to cum.
MasterMarc: Hehe. I understand what you mean. We as master are slaves of our desires. 🙂 Aren’t we? Hey Mike, it was a great to talk to you. Soon we will continue our conversation and talk more about slavery and the life in a 24/7 relationship.