22 years old
5’ 6” / 152cm
145 lbs / 65 kg
Portland, Oregon (USA)
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
Boy Nerd: I’ve always had an interest in BDSM and Kink, ever since I first discovered porn and was fascinated by videos where men were dominated by other men. But it wasn’t until I went to college when I had my first true session in February of 2013. Everything up to that point had been mere fantasy, and I was truly ecstatic to begin my journey into submissiveness that night. Since then I’ve been collared twice, and earned the training collar of another Sir before he broke up with me last December. Interestingly enough, the first two official collars I wore were to Pups, and even though uncollaring has hurt each time, I truly value and cherish my time serving and submitting to them.
sadOsam: Whats especially important for you there?
Boy Nerd: There are a lot of things that are important to me in regards to Kink/BDSM relationships, but I think the most important thing for me is to develop a sense of balance and communication. One of the Pups I was collared to was very, very sexual, and while that was fine and fun at first, it became too much. Even though we were having sex and held sessions all the time, there was no intimacy, and very little connection between the two of us. It was because of that imbalance and other imbalances that caused me to actually uncollar myself from him. It most certainly hurt, but I came to realize and learn just how much balance was key to me. Another aspect of balance is just balancing the dynamic, and realizing that as ideal and erotic as it would be to make the dynamic 24/7 with gear, sessions, etc., reality doesn’t accommodate that. In turn, we adapt, and try to find a balance where all of our needs are fulfilled. Communication is key for any relationship, if not more so for Kink/BDSM relationships. The importance of this was taught to me early on in my journey, and I truly believe it can make or break a Kink/BDSM relationship.
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
Boy Nerd: Besides me being gay, I’ve no uniquely sexual preferences. But to make up for that, I’ve a long list for fetishes I enjoy or would like to try! Aside from servicing orally and anally, I enjoy using toys/machines, offering my services to multiple men, and being a houseboy in general. I also love gear, uniforms, suits, costumes, and being tied up/restrained in some way is absolutely erotic for me. Having cameras and video recorders on is so hot for me, and I love being exhibited/the example boy to onlookers. Nipple play is also something I’ve always loved, and I’d love to build my pain tolerance up with clothes pins, CBT, and the like! I’ve had some experience with rope, but I’d love to be suspended and even being used while I’m in the air. Roleplaying beyond the typical D/s relationship dynamic is incredibly hot to me, like Kidnapper/kidnapee, new harem boy being initiated into Sir’s Harem, etc. What I love about that is that it can be as creative and elaborate as you wish! Oh and and this may seem really simple, but I also love dirty talking! Some of my favorite pornos/clips have the hottest dirty talking, and it’s been known to get me off multiple times. Even something as simple as telling me how I’m a naughty boy in need of punishment gets me rock hard, and practically putty in the Sir’s hands. Group play/gangbangs have been an absolute favorite of mine ever since I first saw a porn that featured a gangbang, and I’m always looking to break my record of 5 men in one session. Care to help break my record again?
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
Boy Nerd: Now here’s an incredibly difficult question! Right off the bat, I like guys who are nerds like me! We wouldn’t even have to be nerds about the same thing, but the fact that we can share our nerdiness and passion of whatever we like together would be wonderful. Intelligence, ambition and drive are all key as well, I like a guy who has goals and knows how to achieve them in time. Knowledge within and beyond Kink/BDSM are important, especially since I’d love a relationship that can balance the Kink and the vanilla simultaneously. Physically, I love guys of all kinds! I do like and gravitate to guys who stay in shape, but in all honesty what really matters is how comfortable and confident you are in your own skin. Tattoos, piercings and the like are stuff I don’t mind, as long as it isn’t excessive. In regards to racial preferences, I don’t have any preferences or anything. While a well-hung guy is always fun, I understand that in reality most guys are average, and in my opinion so long as he is at the same size or bigger than me, I’ll lovingly worship that cock. But I guess the biggest deal breaker is that I do prefer tops and Doms, what with me being a sub boy and all.
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
Boy Nerd: Ooh…if I thought that last one was difficult, this one is just all kinds of tough! I’ve had so many experiences, and its honesty difficult to decide which is hottest! I could talk about how the first Pup and I did a webcam show together, and how we had so many people watching me service him online in every way a boy can. It was such an incredible night, I helped the Pup earn so much money from people watching, and I just loved watching myself be used by the Pup on the screen! There’s also the time when the second Pup I served had a Thanksgiving party. The entire time I was naked and serving all of the Pup’s attendees and guests. Later in the night, a Sir and I performed for the guests which involved nipple clamps, toys and my first time with electro ever. But all of that happened a year or two ago. Recently, I was gangbanged by five guys, all at least 7 inches, all incredibly horny, all used both of my holes. It was such a fun night, I loved feeling like a whore servicing all of those men, I can’t wait for the next one! So I guess the real question is, which story would you like to hear more?
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
Boy Nerd: There are so many things I want to experience! I may have started my journey three years ago, but I’m still very much inexperienced in the grand scheme of things. For example, everyone I’ve worn a collar for hadn’t had experience being a Dom beyond a year or two, if that. Because of that, I’d love to be service and be collared to a man who’s had much experience being a Dom in Kink/BDSM. I’d also like to get more into modeling, it’s something I’ve dabbled in before and I’ve always loved doing photoshoots and working with photographers. In regards to fetish preferences and the like, I’ve still much to learn. I’ve yet to be suspended, or spend significant time in a cage. I’d also like to service a Dom fully for at least a full day with little to no breaks. This could be domestic, sexual, or any service I can provide within my power. I’ve had the training for it, but I’d like to experience serving at a Tea or something of the like. Something I’ve always fantasied about was talking a tour of major/popular dungeons throughout America and Europe, just to see all of the different dungeons, meet the people and maybe even experience a few sessions here and there. Shoot I haven’t even attended Folsom Fair yet, even though I’ve been dying to go ever since I heard about it!
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