Ecstatic Satyr | 1982 | 169 cm | 69 kg | Kansas City (US)
Twitter: @EcstaticSatyr | Recon: EcstaticSatyr
You’re pretty hot, but you’d look even hotter bound in my rope.
Ecstatic Satyr’s Fetish Life
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
Ecstatic Satyr: I started exploring my kinky side just over a year ago. I guess you could say I’m a late bloomer.
Looking back, I realize I always had a dark, kinky side. In college I tried to get my boyfriends to tie me up with a scarf or belt or whatever was lying around… but they weren’t really into it. I also tried watersports a few times, but always hid those kinks from my boyfriends and dates. Something about the BDSM used to scare me. The raw, primal side of it. I remember thinking, if I try these things, I’ll never be able to enjoy vanilla sex again. I thought I had to be a “good boy.”
Over the years, more and more kinky porn found its way into my Porhub and Xtube favorites… When I ended a four-year relationship last year, I realized this was my chance to try it. I found a Sir to train me as a sub, bought some gear, learned some bondage ties, and set out for Folsom weekend in San Francisco, my first kinky event. I never felt so free. I vowed never to turn back.
sadOsam: Whats especially important for you there?
Ecstatic Satyr: After being repressed for a long time, I feel it’s important to explore different kinks and fetishes in a spirit of openness and fun. We’re all here to learn and enjoy and connect with ourselves and each other on a deeper level. It’s a wonderful thing! So I always just try to enjoy myself to the fullest, but I don’t take myself too seriously.
Mutual respect is also key. It takes a lot of guts to admit to yourself, and then to everybody else, that you’re into something unconventional. We should always honor that. I don’t share a lot of kinks with others, and they don’t share all of mine, but kink shaming and body shaming are hard limits for me. At the end of the day we are all brothers and sisters and should support one another and help each other grow. Overall I do find more camaraderie in the queer BDSM community than the “mainstream gay community”, but there is always room for improvement.
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
Ecstatic Satyr: Rope, rope, and rope. The more the better! I love the versatility and diversity of rope bondage. Loose ties or hard and tight ties. Floor work or suspension. You can tie on a simple cuff or harness for a quick fuck, or you can take your time and create a beautiful work of art with rope wrapped around a human body. I love the smell and feel of rope. I love how a good rigger can communicate tenderness or savageness with just the speed of movement and the tension of the rope. Most of all, I love the skill and creativity that good rope bondage demands. As a sub, a talented rigger can bring me to my knees and instantly pull me into subspace. As a Dom, tying gives me a great sense of satisfaction as well as control. I still consider myself a novice rigger and rope bunny, but ultimately I aspire to learning suspension work and doing rope bondage demos in public.
Aside from rope, I enjoy a variety of kinks. Watersports is one of my favorites, you will often see me flagging yellow. I was surprised to learn from my first Sir that I’m a bit of a pain pig, so I like exploring impact play with the riding crop, flogger, paddle, and of course a steady hand. This is great for my current boyfriend, who has recently discovered his sadistic side. Hot wax is fun, too. Sometimes we like to invite a boy over – I tie him up and my boyfriend flogs him and covers him in wax. I enjoy sissification (stockings and panties) on occasion. Chastity makes for a fun game. And of course leather and rubber are both very hot to me.
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
Ecstatic Satyr: I always say confidence and kindness are my biggest kinks. These are the most important things I look for in a guy. Guys who are thoughtful, smart, and have a sense of humor are very sexy to me. Physically speaking, I tend to gravitate toward fit, slim, or muscular guys. Big brown eyes and killer smiles always catch my attention, as do piercings and tattoos. While not a requirement, big dicks and bubble butts are always welcome, too! I also love femboys, sissy boys, and drag queens – as a top or a bottom! Something about blurring gender lines really turns me on.
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
Ecstatic Satyr: It’s tough to pick just one! One of the best was at IML in Chicago this year. At Jackhammer on my first night. I was just standing by the wall taking a break when a gorgeous guy walked by. I grabbed his hand and said, “You’re pretty hot, but you’d look even hotter bound in my rope.” That’s all it took! He had never been tied up before, but was very eager to try it. The next day he came to my hotel room and I tied him up. While I was fucking him, some friends called me so I invited them to take their turn and fuck him. Then one of his friends came and fucked him. I had the curtains open and dozens of guys were watching our sex show through the windows! A few even came and knocked on the door, and we invited them in to fuck the sub, too! It was a really hot and memorable experience.
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
Ecstatic Satyr: There are so many! The first would be something like the one I just described, but with me as the sub bottom! I have always fantasized about being tied up tight and used by multiple guys – the more the better! I would like them to fuck me, flog me, torture my pierced nipples, and piss on me in the end. I have a Master in Europe who I trust deeply, and I would really love him to pimp me out in this type of situation, too.
Another dream is, as I mentioned, becoming a professional rigger in the Japanese kinbaku style. Especially a long, sensual rope bondage scene in the woods or in an old, abandoned building sounds really hot to me.
I have a regular boy who is very submissive and enjoys humiliation. Some day I’d like to organize a party where I tie him or mummify him and use him as furniture – a table or a chair maybe – while my friends and I put our drinks on him, rest our feet on him, or whatever we want. Of course we’ll also use his holes to fuck and piss in as well. The rest of the time, he can serve us drinks in nothing but a jockstrap and collar.
Finally, I’ve never been fisted before, but I would like to try. The faces my fisting bottoms make when I’m pushing deep inside them are enough to convince me that it’s worth the hard work and training!
Of course I’m always learning and trying new things, so next week this list might be twice as long already!