A “My Fetish Life” interview with GearGuyDrs (36).
Bottom / Sub
172 cm / 5’7
79 kg / 174 lbs
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you come to that?
GearGuyDrs: I made my first experiences with fetish when I was 17. I found rubber pants in a mail order catalogue, ordered them an after I received them, I wore them very often. Some months later, I registered in an online portal for fetish gay people, where I got in touch with a guy from the area nearby. He was into leather and boots and we got friends and I also came in touch with his friends. As years went by my interest in rubber, leather and the guys who wear it grew.
My ex boy friend, who wasn’t into any kind of fetish, took me to Berlin. Coincidentially at that time there was one oft he first Folsom Europe. And we went once through the street fair. That changed everything: I bought more rubber gear, attended fetish parties and enjoyed knowing people who are into the same things. But it took some time till I showed in the streets in gear. Rubber ist not as suitable for everyday use as other fetishes. That changed, when I bought my first leather jeans. Now fetish is a solid part in my life.
GearGuyDrs: I’m a very bad actor and if I don’t really live a scene, no one believes me. So if I try to be the dominant part, the sub will laugh. Thats why I try to be authentic and remain in the role I feel an inner desire for – the best is if there’s a matching partner. Openness and acceptance are important as well. That means, I’m experimenting. Whenever I get an idea of something I want to try or find clothes I want to wear, I simply do it. I was surprised very often in the past. On the other hand, I accept there are guys with fetishes I cannot handle with, and these guys also may live their fetishes.
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
GearGuyDrs: Sure I have preferences. Maybe you recognized that leather and rubber play a big role in my life. I enjoy wearing leather uniform and I it looks quite dominant. But deep inside I’m more the submissive guy. I like to feel dominance, to lick boots, to be tied up, to feel pain, to kiss intensively.
Over time, around these main preferences grew new fetishes and preferences which can more or less be led back to those. My fetish for sneaks and sox grew from my fetish for boots, my preference for dog play as well (because of the kneeling position). My preference for dominant guys led to fisting, piss and sniffing. Actually I’m on a great journey through my sexuality and every day I discover something new and interesting.
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
GearGuyDrs: I like guys that look and behave like real man. In best case they are a bit taller than I am, have some muscles, are a bit dominant, lovely though and have some brain, so we can have a nice talk. And very important: he hast o share some of my fetishes or sexual preferences. Not everything has to match always – in the end the whole guy has to match somehow.
GearGuyDrs: Do you really want to know that? I already told, I love top-sub-games. At that point in time I had a top. But I was alone in Berlin for a business trip. In the evening I called my top and after some minutes he said: “I know you’re very alone in your hotel room. So I just called another top in Berlin. Get your clothes, take the underground and visit him. You will have to ring and once the door is opened you’ll get in the apartment. There you will find a blindfold. After you put it on, you will treat him as you would do for me. I will call him afterwards and ask if you did well.” And I did exactly what I was ordered. I took the underground to visit a guy I’ve never seen before, got blindfolded and I then I felt I was tied up and he dominated me the whole evening. Later I discovered, there was a third person in the room playing with him – I thought it was his boyfriend. In the early morning I left the apartment without ever knowing what the guy looked like. I was happy because my top was very proud.
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
GearGuyDrs: There are so many things in the world and I don’t know most of them. In general it is as follows: I watch some porn, I talk to somebody or I get an idea of something that may be nice to try and what could be fun. Then I look for someone who I can do this with. In best case it’s the guy I just talked with. And if not… there’s always somebody you meet accidentially or on purpose you can do this with. So it was in the past and so it will be in future. That’s why I don’t make any plans, but get inspired by what perversities my brain ever produces.
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