A “My Fetish Life” interview with erotic model Lord Agonia.
I’m Italian, based in Brighton, UK
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
I have always liked what people usually doesn’t. when I was about 14 year old I started experimenting different alternative looks, like goth and punk wearing pvc, leather, mesh tops, boots and studs. At 15 I discovered fetish parties like Torture Garden but unfortunately i couldn’t attend that kind of party until my 18th.
sadOsam: What’s especially important for you there?
Lord Agonia: for me trust, reliability, respect and safety are the key for any kind of relationship, especially in bdsm.
when i play with a sub i don’t necessarily treat him badly unless we are playing that game. I prefer being calm and polite but at the same time being in control. I’m quite sadistic but i like to make my slaves feel ‘safe’ at the same time. i don’t like violence. If i need to get violent to dominate someone that means that is not the sub for me, bdsm is a game and it should be enjoyable for both dom and sub.
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
Lord Agonia: I am very open minded, like experimenting, but I have limits as well. i like to try everything is safe, too much alcohol or drugs are definitely not allowed with me, especially during or before a session. i can’t lose control if someone trusts me enough to play with me and same for the sub, i want them to be aware and conscious of what’s happening at any time, besides that, i think i could try most of the things with the right person and probably i could even try to be a switch.
some of my big turn ons are: latex, leather, rope bondage, boots, masks and hoods and mild tortures.
Lord Agonia: I don’t have a kind, but i like intelligent and healthy people, age doesn’t really matter to me, my boyfriend is 48 and I don’t mind that. Obviously, I also like good looking and fit guys but that’s not enough to make them my kind 😉
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
Lord Agonia: Oh i don’t know, I had many but i can’t remember a particular one. I started having sex when I was 14/15 and I started going to sex clubs at 18. everything was very exciting and i was always the youngest in the club. I experimented a lot and I have very hot memories…many different scenarios and situations. I always liked watching other people playing in the dungeon, I always liked risky situations like sex in public and not just in cruising areas like toilets or bushes but also on public transports and in the street
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
Lord Agonia: One of my dreams is, and always has been, to have several subs, including female subs but just to make them my rubber dolls and every sub would have specific roles. I’d love to live in a castle or church and make it my own home/dungeon. something like the film ‘preaching to the perverted’.