A column by Master Ferdok about his way to live the sm with brain and heart.
I am 47 years old and I am from north-western germany. I am located in a very small city called Leer(Ostfriesland). It’s close to the dutch border. Our next bigger cities are Bremen which is at the same time my nearest airport and Emden. I am married since almost 5 years and I live openly gay. I own a house at the country side here in north-western germany without direct neighbours. My next neighbour is about 100 meters away from my property.
I am into SM for more than 25 years now. I always was a master, active and dominant and sadistic by nature. Let’s start with a very stupid thing I hear over and over again: “You can only be a good master if you have started as a slave”. Sorry but that’s bullshit. All you need to be a good master is a working brain to be able to watch your slaves how they handle things. So don’t let noone tell you that bullshit sentence. It’s simply rubbish.
Every once in a while people ask me what I like and what turns me on. Usually I am tired to answer those questions cause you just need to look at my blog and you can answer it yourself but today I feel like in a mood to write a bit about it. My favourite tool is the bullwhip. I like to tie slaves up in a spreadeagled position and to whip them. It turns me on to see the whip impacting on a slaves body. It turns me on to see the body reacting to the inflicted pain. I like to see how the muscles react and I am curious how much a new slave can take.
I like it rough and extreme. But whatever I do I always do it safe, sane and responsible.
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Dear fetish lovers,
The SM scene is big and there are a lot of varieties and ways to play or to live it as a lifestyle. One of the best examples is this website. For a lot of people it is just a way to bring more spice into their sexual life but for some it is a way to live.
I am a good example for this. I can’t imagine to live a life without slaves and without SM in general anymore. And I am a person that likes to play hard, yes sometimes I even like it extreme. And I know that there are some that are interested in exactly this kind of theme.
That’s the first reason why I keep a tumblr blog.
I want to share the experience I collected in more than 30 years. During these 30 years it happens that I met people who seem to lack experience, responsibility and reliability. Ok, experience you have to collect on your own but responsibility and reliability have to do with knowledge. Knowledge is the most important thing when it comes to SM. In my blog I want to share my knowledge with likeminded people. In my blog I write about the things I do and I explain why I do what I do. I also share pics and videos from my dungeon and I really hope that it gives my followers the feeling that they are not the only ones who have those desires and feelings and that there are responsible and reliable masters in the SM scene.
Let’s be honest. There are a lot of so called masters and sirs in the SM scene who really don’t know what they do. 25 years ago I met a slave on the “Planet Romeo” website. He started to ask questions about SM and the way I play. After some time he found trust in me and confessed that the first experience he made with SM ended in a disaster. He met a “master” and this guy tied him up and than he started to beat the shit out of him. This meeting ended with 3 broken ribs and a broken nose. I was totally shocked about the story he told me and that was the moment I decided two things:
- I want to be a responsible master and if I ever meet a slave I want to be able to go and drink a beer with the slave when the session is over even if we haven’t been a match. I want to be able to look into the eyes of a slave after a session without any bad feelings for both sides.
- I will do everything to protect future slaves to make this kind of experience and I think one of the most effective ways is to write about SM and to try to be a kind of responsible role model.
So I really hope that when I write about it and when I share pictures and videos it helps to protect boys and men to make bad experiences and to create a kind of conscience what things are important, what things can be dangerous and how to stay safe and have fun with SM.
My blog is definitely no porn blog. If you want to find pictures about men fucking men my blog is definitely not the right one for your needs. You can find thousands of other blogs who offer exactly that. You will never see pics of me, my husband or our friends where we fuck slaves or where slaves deliver blow jobs. And I also don’t post pics of boys and men who have boners. Yesterday I reached a personal milestone. The number of followers of my blog reached 4000. I am proud about it because my blog is really special and no porn blog.
I want to thank each single one who follows it. You guys are the main reason for me to keep on writing and posting. I love you and I want to wish each one of you a perfect weekend.
Have fun, stay safe and most important enjoy your life.
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