This week, get the Buzz on vibrating wands, plus over 10 creative ways to use them.
- Restrictions accommodated: Live with roommates/Need to be discrete, Frequent visitors/Need to hide kinky gear, Live alone/No need to be discrete, Renter/Cannot damage walls or ceilings, Lack of storage space
- Budget: Less than $10 USD
- Time required: Less than 15 minutes
- Tools required: No tools required
As always, make sure bdsm/kink play is safe, sane, and consensual. Never leave your sub alone during bdsm play. Especially with CBT, it’s important to test devices on yourself first before using them on your sub. You can’t be a very good Dom if you have no idea what it feels like. Chances are you’ll either go too extreme or bore your sub to tears. Actually either extreme of that spectrum could have your sub in tears, whether through pain or boredom. Always keep one very important rule in mind when planning and participating in a session: If you break your sub, you don’t get a new one! 😉
Lock your restrained sub’s dick in chastity, then use rope and/or rubber bands to tie the neck of a vibrating wand to the chastity cage and turn the wand on. You can adjust the variable speed higher/lower based on how your sub responds.
Restrain your sub in virtually any position, then use adjustable wand holders to secure one or more vibrating wands to your sub’s dick, balls, ass, or wherever you want. Use rubber bands to help hold the wand heads to your sub’s dick/balls.
For even more intense stimulation, add a masturbation sleeve that attaches to the wand. These silicone sleeves are inexpensive and greatly increase the stimulation from the wand.
Tie/cuff your sub spreadeagle on a bed. Then suspend a wand from a ceiling hook, beam, or any high point, so it hangs right over his dick. You can experiment with what works best on your sub, whether that’s teasing him with the wand barely touching his cock, or hanging it so it’s just out of reach forcing him to lift his ass off the bed to get any attention for his cock. Or maybe you decide to rubber band the wand to the head of his dick for non-stop stimulation with no way to shake the wand off. This can be even more fun after a nice long chastity lockup. Remove the chastity cage and tease him with the wand hanging over his ultra-sensitive cock for a while, without letting him cum too quickly.
Adding a mastrubation sleeve attached to the wand improves this one in a few ways. It intensifies things A LOT, and makes for much less mess since you can easily position your sub’s cock so he shoots on his own chest.
Restrain your sub in a cage facing up, then hang a vibrating wand over his dick. You can use rubber bands or rope to make sure he can’t shake the wand off. Then tell him he needs your permission to cum. 😉
Use your sub’s dick and nipples against each other. Put some adjustable nipple clamps or clover clamps on his nipples. Tie a thin rope or shoelace around the head of his hard (or semi-hard) dick, leaving at least 6-8 inches of extra rope. Then tie the end of that rope to the nipple clamps chain taut with his dick laying flat against his abs. Now take a vibrating wand and tease his dick. If his dick stays soft, the nipple clamps won’t get pulled. If his dick gets hard, it will pull on the nipple clamps. But will that make his dick go down? Or will it make him harder? Only one way to find out!
Restrain your sub in a way that leaves him standing up straight, or kneeling upright. What’s important here is that his chest and head are vertical. Then put a collar on him. Using D-rings in the collar and/or similar clips, secure a vibrating wand so it’s hanging down from the collar and doesn’t quite reach his cock. Then tell him he has permission to cum and watch him struggle to lean his head forward and line up the wand so it touches his cock long enough to get enough stimulation to cum. Even more fun, give him a time limit and tell him if he doesn’t cum in x minutes, his cock gets locked in chastity for a week (or longer)!
Lock your sub in stocks, or any similar position that forces him to look down where his dick and balls are locked in. Then hang a vibrating wand and strap it to his cock, just under the head. Kick back and watch the show as he is forced to watch it (if you don’t blindfold him) without being able to control it. You can increase/decrease the wand speed if you think he’s getting too close, or if he’s not quite hard enough.
Do you have a tough sub? One of those that aren’t phased at all by clothespins? Put a row of clothespins on his shaft, balls, or even on his nipples. Then take a vibrating wand, run it along side the clothespins to shake them up with constant vibrations, and see if he still thinks he’s so tough. 😉
Restrain your sub and secure a vibrating wand to his dick. Then use a programmable lamp timer (one that allows multiple on/off times per day) to setup multiple on/off intervals for the wand. Tell him to enjoy the ride, but that he’s not allowed to cum or his post-orgasm cock will continue to get stimulated starting immediately after he cums. Or, to make things even more interesting, lock his dick in chasity before starting this. Then watch it grow until it hits the end of the chastity cage, then go down when the timer turns the wand off. Up, down, up, down. This will repeat until the end of the cycle you’ve programmed. This lamp timer allows up to 20 on/off settings in one day, plenty to drive your sub crazy wanting to cum!
This lamp timer will allow you to control two vibrating wands at the same time. For example, one secured to your sub’s dick, and the other secured between his balls and ass. Or one wand hanging from above, barely touching his shaft. And the other rubber banded to the head of his dick.
Or, you could tell your sub that he’s allowed to cum within the first x # of seconds/minutes each time the wand turns on. Then you can let him watch a clock, or make him count in his head. Just make sure there’s punishment for cumming outside the allowed time, whether or not you tell him what the punishment will be. You could even project a clock onto the ceiling if he’s laying on his back.