A column by Master Ferdok about his way to live the sm with brain and heart.
I am 47 years old and I am from north-western germany. I am located in a very small city called Leer(Ostfriesland). It’s close to the dutch border. Our next bigger cities are Bremen which is at the same time my nearest airport and Emden. I am married since almost 5 years and I live openly gay. I own a house at the country side here in north-western germany without direct neighbours. My next neighbour is about 100 meters away from my property.
I am into SM for more than 25 years now. I always was a master, active and dominant and sadistic by nature. Let’s start with a very stupid thing I hear over and over again: “You can only be a good master if you have started as a slave”. Sorry but that’s bullshit. All you need to be a good master is a working brain to be able to watch your slaves how they handle things. So don’t let noone tell you that bullshit sentence. It’s simply rubbish.
Every once in a while people ask me what I like and what turns me on. Usually I am tired to answer those questions cause you just need to look at my blog and you can answer it yourself but today I feel like in a mood to write a bit about it. My favourite tool is the bullwhip. I like to tie slaves up in a spreadeagled position and to whip them. It turns me on to see the whip impacting on a slaves body. It turns me on to see the body reacting to the inflicted pain. I like to see how the muscles react and I am curious how much a new slave can take.
I like it rough and extreme. But whatever I do I always do it safe, sane and responsible.
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Dear fetish lovers,
24/7 is a big step and it takes a lot of preconditions before it can be done but it is possible to make it real. I already made that experience and I surely don’t want to miss it.
The big difference is probably obvious for everyone but despite of it I want to write about it in todays column.
One big difference is that I can control the slave really 24/7 around the clock. If I keep a slave permanently I can make sure for example that the slave is really in permanent chastity and that he does not try to open the chastity belt. To have total control about a slave is one important aspect why I prefer permanent enslavement.
Also I like to see the development of a slave. If a slave is permanently in my dungeon sooner or later I will see his mood changing. I will become a witness of the moment when the slave isn’t horny anymore and when he starts to struggle with being kept naked, chained and collared. And every slave who is kept permanently will get into that situation. And this fact leads to the next advantage of 24/7.
Mind control: As soon as a slave starts to struggle I have the possibility to control and to correct the slave’s mind. That’s the moment when I can start to teach the slave that it is his duty to serve and to obey even if he doesn’t feel like it. This technique is called reprogramming. Only when a slave is permanently kept I can do this reprogramming over and over again and only than it will lead to the result that I have in mind. If a slave just serves as a part time slave he will soon be distracted again. It usually happens whenever the slave goes back to the “normal” life and when he is not in direct control of his owner and the consequence of this distraction is that the reprogramming has to be done each time again you meet the slave again. If I keep a slave permanently it is me who controls when and how the slave gets distracted.
Another advantage of permanent slavery is that the slave can be molded like I see fit. For example body modifications. If a slave doesn’t have to follow a regular job anymore I can give him the haircut I want. If I like I can shave his hair totally or I can mark him with a tattoe or branding as my property. All these things can’t be done when a slave just serves part time.
And there are a lot of more advantages. A permanent slave for example will make sure that your house is really clean every day. No need to cook, clean, iron or to do washing yourself anymore. That’s such an underestimated advantage of keeping a slave permanently. 😉
But let’s be totally clear about something. 24/7 is nothing you do from one day to another. You need to find the perfect matching slave/master for it and as I already mentioned earlier the preconditions have to be right for such a step.
Not to mention the big responsibility for both the master and the slave.
So usually before you start to even think about it you usually meet with a master/slave on a part time base. You usually start with regular meetings and later if everything feels good for both sides you can start to think about 24/7 and to do that step.
The experience you will do with 24/7 is worth it.
I wish all my followers a happy weekend.