Good morning dear readers. As our page grows, so does our reach and work. We want to give you the best experience and information on and around fetish. That’s why we are very happy to present you to our newest member John.

He’s going to be writing on all things concerning the fetish lifestyle, and even going to answer questions you may have. Please give him a warm welcome. Now lets let him introduce himself.


About John Marks – I’m a sassy, sissy, switchy, Spiritual, storyteller. Kink has always been a part of my identity since tiring up my boyfriend in my parents basement to even serving a year as a house boy. Kink and leather became my life.

Since then I have devoted my energy and studies into what I believe is an enriching, empowering, radical and restorative way of communal living, fucking, and connecting with myself and others around me.


When beginning to write I often struggle the most on where to start. As I am beginning this journey to answer questions and have some very significant conversations, I feel it best to start with myself. In my life I have gone by many names, slave, boy, Gideon, girl, pup.

As a young child of a pastor I have gone through many walks of life. I by no means consider myself an expert on any of these matters and always seek to learn more, but I can promise I will always speak from my own experiences. Some more in depth than others.

I have been engaged twice in poly relationships and monogamous relationships.  

I have served as a houseboy as well as slave, Dom and mentor to others. I’ve spent a lot of time learning what is a good fit for me and what is not.

As a spiritual person with a critical mind I always looked to the deeper meaning of all of my actions and interests.  

I realize not every kinkster is able to find healing from being bound to a cross, spanked purple and fisted beyond belief. Yet it is through my own personal healing that I come to you today. I’ve known about my kinks my entire life, from sounding myself with toys at the age of 7 to my first time being suspended in bondage.

I’ve been dominant, submissive, know how to make someone my personal punching bag, as well as being degraded in the best way possible.

In my world taboos do not exist, but consent and communication are everything!

Sexual shame has no claim to me anymore and will not be welcome here. My special interests include but are not limited to, age play, fisting, domination, submission, bondage, sounding, pup play, hypnosis, sensory deprivation, spanking, impact play, Water sports, and so much more. 

As a non-binary human that explores both ends of the gender spectrum, I have found so much freedom and love not only in my own leather and kink community, but those who I have met and learned from along the way.  

I grew up in a small town but found my way to the city of Minneapolis, in the United States that has been my home for the past five years.

The day I moved into the city was the day I realized I wasn’t some sick sinner with an appetite bigger than my hole was at the time, but someone who not only had a voice but strength to handle whatever was thrown at me.

I welcome you to my journey and wherever you find yourself on the path welcome home.  

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