SGcsJ | 1985 | 170 cm | 60 kg | Singapore
I liked the feeling of the enclosed sensation the device gives me.
Our Reader’s Chastity Experiences
sadOsam: Are you a sub/slave/faggot?
SGcsJ: I am a submissive. I have some slave tendencies but it mainly depends on the chemistry I have with the dom I meet. I am very much into bondage, sensory deprivation, mummification and breath control, and of course chastity is a very big part of my identity in the circle. I am quite happy to head outdoors to take nude photos, something of a nudist in me which I realized I enjoyed after starting on chastity, and I have a Tumblr blog where I post and share my photos.
sadOsam: What’s your motivation for being in chastity?
SGcsJ: I liked the feeling of the enclosed sensation the device gives me. It gives a sense of comfort and security, and it kind of makes me aroused from that feeling. Yet when I feel like getting myself off I can only feel the hard plastic material, which is frustrating! This mixed feeling of excitement and frustration is something which gets me really charged and it keeps me focused on the tasks at hand, be it during a session or in real life. So I guess keeping me focus is the driving force for me.
sadOsam: How long have you been into chastity?
SGcsJ: I started chastity about 3 years ago when I first started out in the circle. And I have been in it on and off since then.
sadOsam: What device do you wear?
SGcsJ: I am currently using the Holy Trainer v2, but is a knock off from the original as it has a slightly smaller ring compared to the smallest size available from the original. I am still exploring for a better fit but so far this works ok.
sadOsam: Are you locked 24/7?
SGcsJ: No, I only wear it on and off. Sometimes I give excuses that it will be inconvenient to have the device on when I am doing certain activities, but deep down I know I should. I still face abrasion issues with the device thus sometimes I need to remove it to rest my skin.
sadOsam: Do you have a keyholder?
SGcsJ: No. But currently I have a dom who is controlling when I get to unlock, even thou I am still holding on to my keys. We are working towards a well fitted device before he decides to hold on to the keys to my freedom.
sadOsam: What’s the longest you’ve gone locked?
SGcsJ: So far the longest is 6 days straight without even unlocking to clean. But it will not be very hygienic given the tropical climate I live in with the humidity, and the fact I am uncut and have my foreskin trapping piss and moisture. But even with unlocking to clean and groom, I only lasted 10 days.
sadOsam: Don’t you miss masturbating/cumming while locked up?
SGcsJ: I do start to miss masturbating after several days in chastity. But probably due to the short duration I lock up, the urge isn’t very strong. And due to poor self-discipline, I often unlock and jerked off.
sadOsam: How often are you allowed to cum?
SGcsJ: With my dom now, he allowed me to cum once a week as he travels pretty often and didn’t have a lot of chance to edge and tease me. I need to ‘settle on my own’ as he puts it!
sadOsam: What were some of the problems you’ve had with chastity devices and how did you solve them?
SGcsJ: Fitting has always been an issue for me. If the ring size is too small, there will be unbearable burning sensation on my ball sac from the pressure at the base, and I will get abrasions very easily from the constant adjustments; if the ring size is a tad bigger, my balls will slip out very often and cause abrasions too. I will need to put a lot of lubrication to reduce the friction. And I am looking at other device designs on their ring size and their fitting.
sadOsam: What are some of the positive effects of chastity you’ve noticed?
SGcsJ: I am definitely more focused with the tasks on hand, as I have rather short attention span previously. Surely a good thing!