A “My Fetish Life” interview with kinky Pet & Furry Binks (28)
|BINKS (Wubber pup)|
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you come to that?
You: For as long as I can remember I have always had a kinky side. I think the first realization that I had even had a kinky side was when I was younger and seeing people wearing spandex (shorts and pants). I liked the way it looked and I fantasized about touching their legs. Then when I got my own pair of spandex shorts I was like “WOW!” and never wanted to take them off. I felt good it was sexy to me.
Sure my friends made fun of me for wearing what was considered girl clothes, because growing up I wore a lot of spandex shorts and pants as regular attire. Even got sent home from school once because the faculty thought wearing spandex pants to school was inappropriate.
As I got older, wearing clothing as such took a back seat. It was becoming something you did not do. Only if the world knew that I had several spandex zentai suits that I wore at night and to bed. Oh yes, I found out about zentai and started buying suits online. Zentai suits were really my first real kinky clothing that would lead me down a path to even more kinky attire later in life.
I conformed to society rules and that is when I started looking at more hard core sexual kinks, fetishes and other interests on the internet. It opened me up to a whole new world of activities that I wanted to partake in. The thing that really got me going was seeing older guys at the time wearing hoods and masks playing in a dungeon. They were doing all sorts of sexual activities; from sex, toys, bondage, fisting to role-playing and then I saw it! Someone dressed in latex with a dog hood on. I knew from that moment I wanted to be a dog. I searched and searched the internet for latex and dog play before I knew what it really was. I was introduced to a world that I had no idea existed.
Of course I was interested in other kinks and fetishes as well. I had little experience with real kink in the real world and over the years I was closeted with my sexuality and any desires. I guess it was the whole growing up Catholic and being gay that you are going to Hell that was pounded into my head growing up.
What changed my way of thinking and being scared to accept what I like and who I am came about (when I attended church) when I sat down and talked to my priest. I told him that I knew I was gay and had a hard time dealing with it. We talked and the one thing that has stayed with me is this, my priest told me something along the lines of “God loves all his children and he will not turn you away. God made you the way you are because God knows you are up to the challenge of being a gay man in this world of ours. When it is your turn to stand before God he will welcome you into his kingdom with open arms.” With that said to me, I had a ton of bricks lifted off of me and I felt that I could now just be me.
In college I came out and started to hang with friends who accepted me and I started to date guys. Lucky for me a few of the guys and friends I had were also interested in kinky activities. We would talk about them, laugh and always let in hang in the air.
There were some times that we did get physical and some things happened. As time progressed things got more and more serious with activities. Once I started to buy some of my own gear and toys and my journey to becoming a pup started it just seemed that more and more kinky/fetish gear has been acquired. I learned very quickly that I am not the type to be dominating in such activities. I learned that I prefer or that I am the submissive type.
So with that being said, I can honestly say I have always been a kinkster at heart, but it was not until I made it to college that I got to really open up and experience kink. From there it has been a continuous journey that I hope will never end. Sure I have done a few things and I post about them when I can or am allowed, but in reality I still consider myself a vanilla person just because there is so much that I still have not experienced.
I am not sure if it is relevant but I am also a furry. When you tell someone you are a furry they look at you and take a step back. I know that they are thinking furries are sexual, animal raping nuts that have sex in animal costumes. That is far from the truth of it, at least for me yeah there are a few furries who give the rest of us a negative image but for me, being a furry is putting on the suit, wondering around town or at a convention and seeing the everyday person look at you and smile. I am all about the hugs, making others happy and when you see them smile most of all a child smile and wave at you it just hits home at the heart for I know that I made that persons day just a little bit better. Being a furry is not sexual or kinky for me at all. Just thought I would throw that out there.
sadOsam: Whats especially important for you there?
You: Important to me as being someone into kink / fetishes? I hope that I understand the question but for me what is important being involved with any kink and or fetish is that there is trust. Having someone you can play with who you can trust and not take advantage of you is something that makes any activity to me, comfortable. If I am not comfortable or I have any trust issues I will not turn into my submissive self just to play and have some fun. I will walk out and forget doing anything with that person.
I put my safety, wellbeing and health above all before submitting to any activity. So be honest with me and we can see what transpires.
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
You: I will admit I am a bottom boy pure and simple. I am very submissive when it comes down to it. In my real life I have to deal with many decisions and interact with a lot of different people. I do not want to have to keep a hold of that and be in charge when it comes down to having some fun. I want to let go of those reigns and just be played with. I like it when I am told what to do.
I am very open to a lot of activities. I am one of those people who like to try most things at least once before rejecting them. Though of course there are a few things that I will not partake in with other people such as bare backing, scat and blood. Safe sex is 100% with me. You have to wrap it if you want to tap my ass.
But to answer the question at hand, I love being encased in full latex. Rubberize me, slip on a pup hood, paws and a tail and I will be a happy pup. Other than that I really do not have any preference other than I am submissive so tell me what to do within reason and rules.
If I have not experienced it, I may say yes to it. If I say no, then that means no. Just play with me, make me comfortable and have fun with me. I can be a wonderful toy for you to play with. Just ask and lets see what happens. It is all about having fun.
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
You: I like everybody. I do not judge by looks alone. If you have a great personality then that is a plus. A big turn off about any guy to me is if they have a negative attitude. If you are going to be negative about life and complain about every little thing, go home. I for one do not want to hear you whining.
When it comes to people to play with, I like guys more around my size. I do not mind if they have a gut or are super fit. It does not really matter to me.
I do not really like the super skinny twinky boys though I am not saying I would not play if the opportunity arose. Then again on the opposite spectrum I do not think I would be able to play with someone who is overly obese or large. There is a fear of having someone much larger than myself looming over me is quite scary.
Then when you talk about penis size, I prefer a regular size penis over a large endowed one. To me a well-endowed guy just does not do anything for me. Sure it is nice, I can take one but it is not for me.
I like guys who have a great personality, have a sense of humor, no ego, are honest and trust worthy and who will respect me and take my thoughts and feelings into consideration.
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
You: That is tough to answer. There are many things that I could classify as a very hot experience. But the hottest for me would have to be to a photo shoot I was doing. The photo shoot was for a guy I know who was building up his photographic portfolio.
The photo shoot was just going to be me in some of my pup gear and one other guy who was dressed in latex with some bike gear. It started off with each of us doing a solo photo shoot and then it progressed into the both of us posing for some shots together. Some of those shots were done in a way that you would think that there was something going on. There was nothing going on, it was just staged and posed shots. We were having a lot of fun and really hitting if off pretty well and the chemistry we had for this photo shoot was really just on par. On one of our breaks from shooting this model guy approached me and asked if I would be willing to make this photo shoot more interesting? He said he is going to show some nudity and if I would not mind maybe having my rear zipper exposed to show some skin, maybe even more. I had no problem with that and agreed.
As the photo shot progressed this guy had his privates hanging out and he unzipped my zippers and he slowly fondled me and slipped his finger into me. I did not reject what he was doing, it may have been from the high of this photo shoot or that he asked me if I would not mind taking it to the next level but I just let things happen. It started with a finger in my bum, then two fingers, then three. He leaned in and asked if he could penetrate me while dropping condoms onto my face. I nodded yes as he rolled a condom on and he slowly pushed his penis into me. It was wonderful and the whole time pictures were being taken. We moved around, different positions and eventually gear started to come off. It was just the moment I guess it was just an amazing experience. The entire time the photographer did not say a word, he just let it happen and he took many pictures.
In the end, we were hot, sweaty and exhausted. I have never done anything like that before and if chance came to it, I would not hesitate doing it again.
Several months later my friend the photographer told me that many of the pictures made it into his portfolio.
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
You: Of course. Who does not have a fantasy or something they want to experience? There is just so much that I have not experience yet so there is a ton of things to choose out of. Though if I had to only choose one and I could experience it right now, I could not. Like I said, there is just so much to choose from. In my lifetime I hope to experience more and more things from the simple vanilla to the extreme kinky stuff that would make someone’s mom blush. I want to try various bondage practices, water sports, anal play, mummification, spanking, role play, costumes and toys, the list is just so vast.