Our Reader’s Fetish Life
Dyson | 1996 | 179 cm | 74 kg | Black Country (UK)
I really enjoy the journey to being fully restrained.
Dyson on Twitter.
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
Dyson: I believe I have always been into kink, though my first ‘propper’ kink session was around four years ago. A couple of guys (who have now turned into dear friends) in a hotel room not far from home. There was a lot of ‘first times’ that day, including the first time wearing a tail and a pup hood. Actually, after performing oral on my fellow sub he decided to call me pup Dyson. Initially I was not a fan but it stuck and has grown on me ever since. More recently I have been working for the company that made that very first set of restrains I tried and I have been experimenting with making my own gear.
sadOsam: Whats especially important for you there?
Dyson: The two main things for me is trust and to have fun. Trust for obvious reasons; to make sure what happens before, during and after a session is safe (both mentally and physically) for everyone involved. Fun, because that is what kink is all about. You only have one life and if kink isn’t fun what’s the point? If it isn’t fun, chances are trust is absent too. I think from an outside perspective kink can be seen as rather restrictive and ordered, socially. Though, I believe it is one of the most liberating experiences a person can have.
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
Dyson: I always find this question hard to answer. I am into many different things but it all depends on moderation. There are a few things however, that stand out for me. I am rather fond of group fun, chastity, heavy restraint, rubber, leather, it all depends on the head space I am in at the time. For example, usually I am too sensitive for CBT but get me in the right mood and once in a blue moon it moves from being a limit to something rather enjoyable. I guess I am a bit of an exhibitionist too at heart. I really enjoy the journey to being fully restrained. I have been known to cause a lot of trouble and do whatever I can to get out of restraints, even if it means a quick wrestling match. That being said, nothing can beat an intimate connection between everyone involved.
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
Dyson: If I like you I like you. I don’t really have a preference on men in general. From big daddy bear types to twinky guys. As long as I find you attractive and you are a good person, and you feel the same about me then we usually get on great. That doesn’t stop me having a quick perve on guys walking past in the street though.
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
Dyson: The one experience that comes to mind may come of a bit of a surprise to many. Most people would not find it very kinky at all – rather vanilla to be quite honest. Just an unexpected meet with a friend and some cuddles turned into a bit of fun. Some people may not even consider this experience as sex as we didn’t do anything analy. Though the lust and intensity of our movements and the sounds we made and the feeling of being free to be yourself was just incredible. The fact this took place on a particularly hot day, and the room had no opening windows made the experience very sweaty. It was very very fun!
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
Dyson: My kinky bucket list is very long but I am slowly ticking things off one by one. Towards the top of the list is a long term session where I’m a gimpy puppy. Locked in my restraints and rubber. Going on walkies, eating from a bowl and being gang fucked by many hot guys.