Our Reader’s Fetish Life
Pup Arfie | 1994 | 170 cm | 60 kg | London (UK)
the moment I realised I am about to loose control gave me the butterflies like I never had before!
Pup Arfie on Tumblr
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
Pup Arfie: Just over a year, although the first time I realised I am kinky was more than half a decade ago. The trigger was an online picture with Spider Man, tied up nice and tight, with his erect genitalia bulging through spandex. At first I was looking just for pictures of superheroes tied up, then found out about tumblr and BDSM shops. Around February 2017 decided to give Recon a go, and now I am a puppy to LondonDungeon!
sadOsam: Whats especially important for you there?
Pup Arfie: The ability to enjoy yourself as you are. Sadly, in many parts of the world sex education is lacking, and “kink” is a word that is rarely mentioned. And so, it is often perceived as a tabu. This makes it hard for some to try it, even if they know or suspect they are kinky. My first few months on Recon were certainly a time of emotional maelstrom and self-discovery.
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
Pup Arfie: I am all over the place: I like puppy play, bondage (especially sleepsacks and straitjackets), sensory deprivation. I love the idea of chastity, although finding a cage with a poper fit is rather hard. AB/DL is also one of the recent discoveries – who could possibly know?
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
Pup Arfie: Fit and witty. Those who are caring and who do not take things too seriously. Those who can show me my place, but do so in a playful manner, and without falling into my traps 🙂
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
Pup Arfie: Getting tied up, then given 15 minutes to break free, and then being locked in chastity while I was still trying to escape. Although the chastity device eventually fell of (they had to use the biggest device they could find, as I was rock hard the entire time), the moment I realised I am about to loose control gave me the butterflies like I never had before!
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
Pup Arfie: I’d like to give objectification a go. Here’s my fantasy: being stored in a tight sleepsack that is either attached to something or suspended, all while wearing a chastity cage. Transferred into another room for milking, only to be locked back into chastity and to be secured in the storage room once again when the milking has finished. Serving no other purpose than to produce semen. Unrealistic, I know, still, incredibly hot.