Our Reader’s Fetish Life
Arcylycra aka Pup Kairos | 1975 | 195 cm | 75 kg | The Hague (NL)
Being very intrigued by this craving for smooth, slick fabrics, I remember searching the library for the meaning of fetish.
Pup Kairos on Twitter.
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
Pup Kairos: I’ve had a fetish for tight and shiny gear since I can remember. I bought my first lycra tights when I was like 15. It was very disco like, black with neon yellow and pink flashes on it. I loved it! But once the cat is out of the bag, you want more. I wanted full coverage so I got a skating suit. Being very intrigued by this craving for smooth, slick fabrics, I remember searching the library for the meaning of fetish. Back then there was no internet, I had to figure this out by myself. Once I had an internet connection I found others like me. AndyElycra from the UK was a great inspiration. And my first date with another lycra fetishist was very exciting. He had closets and closets full of the stuff, got to try everything I wanted. Like a kid in a candy store. When I was 22 I got my first lycra full suit, black cire spandex. Still have it! I also visited the first Dutch lycraparty in Eindhoven with someone I met. That was amazing!
It all went from there. I got in contact with Blackshinyrubber. He introduced me into bondage and rubber, and to this day I am very thankful for that.
Then I met my boyfriend, and I did not have the guts to tell him about my kinky side. So for a couple of years I did it all in secret. The low frequency of kinky meetings and the forbidden aspect of it, did keep things very exciting and interesting though. I did get a rubber suit and some other ‘basics’. Two years ago I could not keep my kinky side to myself anymore, simply because it was just another side of me and I learned that it should not be hidden. So I told my boyfriend. He was very understanding and sweet. Even though he doesn’t want anything to do with it, he allows me to live the kinky side of my sex life.
The last two years have been a blast. I met new and awesome people, got to go to Folsom Berlin and Manchester, be a store gimp, and discovered Doggo headspace. Being a pup makes it more easy to get in contact with other (kink) people… who doesn’t love puppies! I bought a lot of new gear, since I had some catching up to do in that totally different world. It’s an interesting playground of new experiences and emotions.
sadOsam: Whats especially important for you there?
Pup Kairos: I notice with kink and fetish that people (including me) are constantly look for new experiences, or that next piece of gear. A little like an addiction I guess. You see what others do, and you want that too. Twitter is not helping in that sense. Too much “input” makes me go numb at times. So to keep things interesting and sane for me, I separate my two worlds. That is sometimes hard, as I do not get to do everything I would like to do. But that is a conscious choice.
I think I have a balanced life at this moment, and I consider myself to be very lucky to have achieved that. Plus, I get to wear lycra everyday, when cycling to work 😉
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
Pup Kairos: I think I gave this away already at the first question, but I have a huge fetish for rubber, lycra and neoprene. As long as it is tight and shiny. And I am into full coverage, bondage scenes. That ranges from being restricted and edged in full gimp mode, or vacbeds, or bondage chairs, or multiple layers of gear, or body bags.
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
Pup Kairos: When it comes to their body I prefer them athletic and good proportioned. A good set of legs always helps 😉 When it comes to their character, I like a good sense of humor, don’t take yourself too seriously, easy going, and easy to talk to. And sweet and cuddly.
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
Pup Kairos: There are several hot experiences coming to mind. The hottest is I think the one where I am at Blackshinyrubber, flying in a hogtie (watch the video). I believe it delivered one of my best rated pictures ever. And I remember it being very intense and horny (and long). And afterwards we had a very interesting night as well, that was not documented ;-).
And more recently, I have excellent sessions with @pup_vito, including slings, electro, rope and fucking.
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
Pup Kairos: I seriously want to to longer session, where I have to wear rubber for a longer period of time (we’re talking days here). Of course including bondage and edging. And I would like to be tied up in full rubber, in the air, by someone like The Puppeteer or LondonRopeTop. I don’t dare ask…