A “My Fetish Life” interview with pup player Syler.
1993, 24 yo
I’m from Bristol, UK
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
Pup Syler: I knew I was into kink about 5 years ago when I stumbled across bondage porn. I was young(er), confused and just coming to an understanding of my sexuality. A year following, one day I had the pleasure of meeting a local hook up with someone who I later discovered shared my interest in bondage.
I was inexperienced and hesitant at the suggestion of actually fulfilling this kinky fantasy, turning it down lightly. However, I was challenged with the proposition that if I wasn’t begging him to make me cum after 10 minutes, I could be let loose and the bill for the take away we shared would be on him. Being the naive brat that I am, I accepted with a smug grin. It wasn’t long before I realised my mistake and wished I hadn’t been such a cheeky antagonist. After that night I changed. Never had I felt so much adrenaline, excitement and sensitivity. I knew right then that I needed more. I desired to be in more submissive scenarios and explore the kink scene. Fast forward 18 months – I later got welcomed into the twitter pup community and jumped straight into the deep end, attending my first kink event: Folsom. From then onwards my exposure and experience has grown and grown to where I am now.
sadOsam: Whats especially important for you there?
Pup Syler: The feeling of handing over control is a huge relief for me. My friends call me a secret Peter Pan, because if given the choice, I’d want to stay a child forever. My kink has given me a great distraction from adult life, both through real friendships and allowing me to fulfill my naughty impulses. Pup play also means a lots for me. In the beginning, I saw it as an easy transition into being submissive. I could be cheeky, cute and easily put into sub space. But now as I’ve grown, Pup play has become more a part of my identity in the kink community and being a pup matches my personality surprisingly well. I love that I’m known for being cute and derpy along with mischievous and an antagonist.
Pup Syler: My biggest fetishes revolve around bondage, edging, cum control, pup play, lycra, sports wear, rubber… I could probably go on, but I like to leave a little for a Dom to explore. Very rarely I do have a sadistic dominant side, who enjoys torturing and tickling.
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
Pup Syler: I am most compatible with dominant men who can handle my antagonistic and naughty attitude. I find disobedience a form of playfulness and my time, as the sub, to tease the Dom. You can teach me a lesson, but you have to accept that I never learn! Saying that, I am easily tamed. Even a smirk that says “you’re laughing now, but I’ll be the real one laughing later” from the right Dom can totally shut me down. And when the time comes, I bring out the ‘Syler Charm’. If I know I’m in for punishment, I’ll whip out the puppy dog eyes and cute expressions to attempt to distract a Dom from their desire and need to correct my behavior.
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
Pup Syler: I’ve had many, all hot for different reasons. But if I have to try and narrow it down further, my favourites have been everytime I’ve discovered a new love for a new kink/fetish.
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
Pup Syler: I dream to be able to be a better bottom. I’ve always struggled to find it comfortable, only enjoying it a select number of times. From a session point of view, I want to be able to experience being hooked up to a milking machine (Venus 2000 or SeriousKit) and forced to meet a quota of orgasms.