Hello everybody, I’m here today with Det, a sweet omega pup from the Boston Area. Say Det, can you introduce yourself a bit to our readers? What do you all like and are you into?
Bark. I’m a generally subby puppy (though occasionally get up to some rare dommy moods). I’ve been a pup for something like 5 to 6 years, getting into it initially through other submission/power exchange relationships.
Some of my favorite things other than pup play, are rubber, bondage (especially tight restraints where I can try to escape), hypnosis/dronification, chastity and various forms of power exchange. But beyond that I like trying new things and experimenting with various kinks, especially as part of submitting.
Adjacent to kink, I get up to puzzles, board games, and hikes (went up half dome last year).
Especially fun is being able to mix the kinky and non-kinky things together, board games where the loser submits, puppy hikes, etc.
Generally whatever fun trouble I can get into. 🙂
Haha I’ve got quite a few of those board game evenings lately. They’re so much fun, and can add some great additional motivation right? 😉
Has Power exchange always been something that fascinated you/ you got drawn towards? When was the time you first started to get aware of it?
Power exchange/submission in various forms has always fascinated since I was a teen, initially from being seeing it in porn and erotica (nifty archives, bound gods, chained muscle). My fascination with it partially comes from the give and take of the scenes/relationships, and partially from it being a chance to relax/give up control compared to having to keep things organized and cat-herding people in my normal life.
Having grown up in a fairly conservative area, opportunities to actually do those sort of scenes were rare until I moved up to the Massachusetts area for college and had a chance to experience with people in the area, expanding the forms of power exchange that I got to experience.
What are some of the sensations and mindsets you get into when you experience and engage into play? And what are some you especially enjoy?
It really depends on the person I’m playing with and the scene relationship. For ones where I’m submitting as a slave/sub, its nice to get into a nice relaxed mindset where its just about serving and following orders, not having to think or make many/any decisions. That sort of mindset is where things like hypnosis and dronification particularly push me towards. Just being able to focus on the dom.
On another side, as a puppy I can get into a more wild/animalistic mindset, where I’ll try to nip at and test the boundaries, having a more playful mindset, at least until the Alpha or dom asserts authority, with other puppies that being more physical versus mental. For more bondage focused scenes, I enjoy the challenge of being restricted/unable to move, but trying to escape or get out, at least until the rigger tightens the bonds.
Is pup play and kink something entirely for the bedroom for you or is it more part of a lifestyle? What do you see it as?
Different aspects hit differently. Pup play is definitely more of a life thing, the pack I’m in is basically a found family, people who can depend on each other and spend time together in and out of kink. The sense of connection being an important part of it. Being a puppy is a kind of anchor and helps guide my outlook on life. The collar I wear is always a reminder of pup and a safe haven when the going gets ruff.
Other kinks generally tend to be more limited in scope, and haven’t had as much lifestyle impact as being a puppy. But beyond scenes and specific play, the exploration and freedom of kink is an important part of my life, and pup specifically is really a core part of me.
You seem to be quite brave when going outside in gear and more. What’s it that pulls you toward that?
What does it give you, and what’s the bravest thing you’ve done in your mind in that regard?
Initially I did it because I was getting ordered or dared to do it as a form of submission, but more recently I’ve been doing it since its a good excuse to get into gear, especially in times where there’s not a ton of in-person gear time to get up to.
The feel of walking around in rubber is exhilarating and getting comfortable as a pup in public feels nice.
Probably bravest thing is my most recent expedition where I started at 10 PM and just wandered around for 4 hours in just rubber and a pup hood, without backup clothing to cover up the gear if I got nervous.
What are some kinky scenarios you’d love to experience once if you get the chance?
While I’ve done a scene of travelling and submitting as a pup to an Alpha for a few days. I’d still love to try managing some longer term bondage/submission scene, either being tied down or mummified for a longer period of time. Bonus points for some hypnosis/dronification to get deep into a submissive/obedient headspace.
My go to, possibly unrealistic, fantasy/scenario is getting kidnapped and kept in a cabin somewhere, being trained and made to submit, broken down and pushed into a deep sub space through hypnosis and use.
Another scenario I’d like to experience is something where a couple of subs/switches are are pushing at each other, until the other flips the script and takes control, going back and forth. Always looking for more interesting scenarios to experience.